A few weeks ago, it was my birthday and true control freak and avid baker that I am, I made my own cake. Now I'm sure there is some rule out there, just as my family tried to say, that states you are not to make your own birthday cake if you have family around that can do it, but I wanted this cake...and I wanted it to be pretty...and well see above comment about me being a control freak. Sorry, its just who I am LOL! So I stayed up late on the day before my birthday so that I could bake this most delicious cake! (It is super moist and not too rich and very flavorful, seriously I love this chocolate cake...beats boxed cake mix by like 10,000!) Then when I got home from work on my birthday I quickly decorated it...so quickly in fact I plopped the top layer of cake on top of the bottom before I put in the raspberries. I was irked, let me tell you, but no worries I worked with it and by layering them on the sides and in between roses on top it...